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as a female, i feel some light can be shed from the "other side"
sometimes, we do really want to be friends, but if that's the case, it's probably because we never really wanted a boyfriend/girlfriend type relationship to begin with. if we say it anyway, we're trying to spare you, or spare ourselves (if you were the one to dump us)
i personally hate it when girls treat people like they own them. it should be give and take, but it dosen't seem like it was in your case, and that's not fair, so you should just move on with your life. it's not right, but that's the hard truth. if things aren't working out, they probably won't for a long time.
mike is right, there are alot of good looking girls out there, and alot of them are really nice too, you don't have to be with a total bitch to be with someone attractive.
if she "has you by the balls" take her by the hair, swing her around a bunch of times and let her go. (just make sure she drops your balls, otherwise it might hurt a tad) get her out of your life, and keep her there. it's the only way to stop her from hurting, and using you more.
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